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10 Lessons You Learn From the A**holes in Your Life

The world is filled with a**holes. They are everywhere. They hit your parked car without leaving a note, cut you off while waiting in line at Whole Foods and literally knock you out of the way on their mad dash to the subway, so you face the closed doors instead of them.
 
BY:jaikishan sharma


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A**holes aren't limited to random strangers and non-innocent bystanders. I'm also talking about the a**holes who cleverly disguise their insults as jokes. They do something just nice enough so you brush off their negative comment. Maybe he didn't really mean it. Maybe he isn't that bad of a person, or he had a bad day, or he --

No. He's just an a**hole, plain and simple.

Then, there is that other level of a**hole that belongs in Dante's ninth circle of hell. These are the ones who have no consideration for anything having to do with the feelings of others. They will do anything to manipulate their way out of a bad situation and into your heart, only to shatter it once it's in their grasp.

There is a silver lining to having these people in your life: You learn from them. You learn from them and your life improves and you get better.

These are the lessons you learn from the a**holes in your life.

1. You learn to stand up for yourself 2. You learn to look out for those important to you. 3. You learn how to give someone the benefit of the doubt. 5. You learn that sometimes, people are just a**holes. And there is nothing you can do to fix it. 6. At the same time, you learn that there are nice people who will appear seemingly out of thin air to aid you in your time of need. 7. You learn to forgive and forget. Or, to forgive and remember forever. 8. They show you ways to improve yourself... even when you don't see it. 9. You learn to control your emotion -- for better or for worse. 10. They break your heart so you can put it back together, stronger than ever.

There's one final lesson that we learn from a**holes. We learn to appreciate what we have and that time is fleeting and should not be wasted on people who don't deserve it. Though it sucks, we do have the ability to cut people out of our lives who shouldn't be there. Overall, our lives should be spent on the people we love, the things we're passionate about and on living each day to the best of our ability.
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